Have you ever written yourself a letter in which you unload your 
concerns, worries, hopes and deep-felt thoughts? Probably not... though 
the Dr. Phils of our world would probably applaud the practice as 
deliciously therapeutic in the quest for self-awareness!
Each
 time you enter the world of dreams, you are, in essence, writing 
yourself such a letter. Your subconscious mind, without the distractions
 of the day, puts your life, your feelings, your emotions, your hopes 
and your plans all together. All the insight you could hope for is right
 there, ripe for analyzing!
Examining the nightly escapades which 
occur behind your eyelids will give you all of the insight and 
inspiration you need. Like the swallows to Capiatiano, you'll return 
again and again to your dreams to give you the answers you seek.
How can Dream Analysis actually help you?
First
 of all, it helps to understand that what occurs in our minds when we 
are fully asleep is reflective of the emotions and thoughts we have 
while fully awake......granted sometimes they suffer in the translation,
 but our emotions are certainly at the root. The basic feelings make 
their way from our consciousness to our unconsciousness.
The 
difference is that when we are awake, we are too blamed busy to stop and
 say, "I'm wrapped tighter than a plus-sized woman in spandex.......I 
need some down time." We just keep getting after whatever it is that's 
stressing us out and don't take any time to really look at the condition
 of our psyche.....something that quite often isn't in as good working 
order as we suspect.
However if you're having particularly 
troublesome, mad-as-a-hatter dreams, you can discern that you need to 
take a good long look at your lifestyle. Are you too busy? Are you being
 pulled in more directions than you can possibly stretch without 
snapping? Is there something in your life which is more bothersome to 
you than you gave it credit for? Try to work some time into your day 
that's all about relaxing, whether it's yoga, golf, walking, 
reading....whatever you can do that gives your brain a break.
Other
 times our dreams let us know that we simply need to start paying more 
attention to certain people in our life that we may be taking for 
granted. If we dream about a relative we haven't seen in a while, we 
should give them a call. If we dream of starting an argument with our 
spouse, we should give them a little more attention than usual. Many 
times, our proverbial "guilty conscience" knows only one way to reach 
us, and that's while we are asleep.
Another very interesting way 
dreams help us is in the healing process after a traumatic experience. 
Following such an occurrence, we will often dream about the tragedy 
itself, or of something equally morbid. It's our mind's way of wrapping 
itself around what has happened. The dreams will eventually stop all 
together, as soon as your subconscious has come to grips with 
everything.
Sometimes it helps to discuss your dreams with others.
 If you think your dreams are trying to tell you something in 
particular, discuss it with someone. An outside opinion can often do a 
world of good.
When you take an honest look at your life and at 
your typical day, it will be obvious what your dreams are trying to tell
 you. Most people miss out on so much because they discard their dreams 
and forget all about them.
